Thanks all I will do some more testing and see where we are, its a 2019 Defender Max 1000 xt cab.
I hear a relay turning off when I have 3 of my lights on, it clicks off for a few seconds and then turns back on. Not sure if it is the isolator that came with the kit or the relay that came or the 40 amp relay I will start feeling those when it clicks off. Right now I have a 50" led on the roof going forward and a 52" on the front bumper and a 52 going out the back side on the headache rack.